I Didn’t Just Survive the Old Year; I Lived It
We now enter the time of year when it seems everywhere, everywhere, people are heartily wishing 2019 a swift “Fuck off.” And
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December 30, 2019
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The Gift of Fire: What the Anger Teaches
I smelled the fire before I knew what it was. I couldn’t see it or feel it, but the air smelled wrong. An acrid, smoky scent
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September 9, 2019
The Boy In The Playroom
When I was seven, I was healed by a miracle. That’s how my parents always told it. The night before, we’d had company.
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July 23, 2019
When Your Trauma Doesn’t Fit the Image of PTSD
I’ve run a blog for the last five years about the intersection of my chronic physical and mental illnesses and my hopes of
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June 27, 2019
The Harm of Fixers | 5 Types of Well-Meaning People You Encounter When Suffering
There are people in your life who only like you when you are shiny and happy. They’re there to celebrate your triumphs. They
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March 28, 2019
Notes From Nanea | Emotional Pain Management
I’m thinking a lot these days about pain management. Mitigating pain has been a big part of my life these last few months.
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August 2, 2018
What You’ll Remember
Previously published on The Next Good Thing. Over the past several years, my mom’s dementia has been slowly
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July 31, 2018
Ordinary Sad
I woke up the other day feeling sad. There’s the Big Sad, because, you know, terrible, not-fun life events, but then there’s
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June 27, 2018
Burn the Pages & Keep Going
The past teaches us important lessons about where we do and do not want to go, but we also need to let go.
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May 25, 2018
Personal Essay | The Strength in Weaknesses
The first thing that comes to mind when I think of Minnesota is corn. Lots of it. Like, you are literally surrounded by corn.
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February 28, 2018
